Sex on Pedestal

It's a rainy spring day evening in Virginia, the fan is blowing, drake take care is playing out the speakers. And my bed? It couldn't feel any more relaxing. That has nothing to do with this blog, just wanted to paint that picture so y'all can understand why this blog was even written. 

I wanted to talk about sex, sex sex sex that's all people think about. Don't get me wrong, sex is the second best thing after fried chicken fresh out the grease. But it's to the point that people put it on a pedestal, and quite frankly it is annoying. Yes as a man I love sex, yes most likely I will have sex with you if you're a woman I'm attracted to. But damn, that's all you think I want? Is your perception of men that fucked up that you think that's all any of us want? That's a pretty ignorant generalization if you ask me. I know that's what y'all want to believe but sorry, not all of us are the same. Sex isn't hard to get, after a while you start to want more. It happens. At least it happened to me. Of course telling a woman that sounds like game, because they think that's all we think about. Why can't I just want companionship? A female to talk to and care about? Is that hard to grasp and believe as the truth? In today's time, it is. When you don't just want sex, you're automatically categorized as a "b*tch" for the lack of better words. That's how it works now, you will be called sensitive if you appreciate women without sex. Crazy how that works right? You see it on twitter everyday, Rob Hill Sr will give women advice and men will riot because he's not being a scum bag. It's truly amazing to me. Don't get me wrong, I'm no saint. Not even close. I've had my savage days, even then I still always had respect for women. I just don't like the assumptions "oh he just wanna fuck" I feel disrespected by it. You think that's all I'm capable of wanting? I can't want to love you and care for you? That's impossible? The prejudging is getting old now, I wish it stop. Not to mention, when women think that's all a man wants, as men we think maybe that's all we should want. I mean, if she thinks all men just want to fuck clearly that's what she is use to.. Right? Laws of attraction, if you think that's all men want that's the type of men you will attract. Which will only prove your statement right about men. Just keep a open mind, let me love you without you disrespecting me with your generalizations about men. Know a respectable man when you see one, or hope what you see is a respectable man until proven otherwise. That's all I have, this whole blog probably didn't make sense. But it did to me, so there's that. Be great. 

My Soulmate

My soulmate is probably dead, or in a coma. My soulmate is probably with a fuck nigga who fuck bitches on the side. My soulmate probably keeps her feelings inside. Trying to hide, from past heartbreaks and lies. My soulmate probably scorned as hell. My soulmate probably has a boyfriend in jail who can't make bail. My soulmate probably never noticed me, or friend zoned me openly. My soulmate probably choose to be single. Knowing she wants to love, but feels she is incapable of loving another man. My soulmate probably does everything she can to only look at me as a friend. That's life tho. My soulmate might be reading this respecting my penmanship. Thinking the same thing about me shaking her head and calling me a hypocrite. Maybe my soulmate is you.