Keep it or nah?

Hello ladies and gentleman, I feel like I'm going to get judged for this blog post but someone has to do it. Abortion is a touchy subject, but its something that needs to be addressed.

Now let's begin..

Abortion is a necessary evil, some wouldn't agree which baffles me. Not everyone is built to be a parent, some will admit it but some can't. I just feel like you shouldn't want to bring a child in this world if you're not ready. That's what abortions are for, you have options no need to fuck up another life. You don't believe in abortion's you say? Well I don't believe in making selfish decisions. I also don't believe in choosing to be a single parent and struggling everyday. Miss me with that fake deep righteous bullshit, who do y'all think y'all are? Y'all see those people on tv telling you that abortion is wrong and just run with it. But you never stopped to think, those people on those commercials can afford a baby with no problems at all. Now they got shorty that work burger king drive thru thinking abortion is wrong. She barely can keep her cell phone on every month but she think she can afford a baby. She live with her crack head mom but she suddenly don't believe in abortions. That's the shit I be talking about. You have options, don't be ignorant and not use them to your advantage.

But i figured it out..

A lot of women are lonely and miserable and being pregnant is the high light of their life. They know they're not in the position to take care of a child, but they know they will probably never get pregnant again. Of course they won't admit it, that's when they pull out the "I don't believe in abortions" excuse. Cool, you don't believe in abortions and that's fine. Now if you know you don't believe in abortions maybe your dumb ass should believe in condoms. Plan b, birth control, swallowing or something. All the steps to prevent pregnancy should be taken when you don't believe in abortions. A real nigga gon crush that plan b up in ya breakfast tho. Thats not pulp in that orange juice baby. So you don't have to worry about getting pregnant, we handle that off rip. i'ma save that for another blog

But like I was saying...

I'm not telling everyone to get an abortion, I'm just saying make the right decision for what's best for y'all. It takes two to make a baby, therefore it should take two to make the decision on what to do next. Women feel like because it's their body they should make the final decision, and I understand that. But it was also your body when he decided not to pull out. You couldn't control that huh? Oh ok. Now when he tells you he doesn't want the baby, don't call him a dead beat. Not saying I agree at all, but if a man doesn't want the kid you can't make him. Once you make that decision to have the child after he tells you to get the abortion, you have to live with that. Don't complain about him not being there or not paying child support, you knew this was going to happen.

And before I go I also want to say this, don't have too many abortions. I think one is enough, after that you're just a horrible person. Don't turn the juice box into a pine box full off Lil embryo's. Your box is a ghost town after 2 abortions, you can hear the cry's of aborted babies when you buss it open. You should not know off the top of your head how much an abortion is after tax.

But fuck it, do what you want. I'm good tho, no pregnancy scares over here cus my pullout game is impeccable. Take care

Sex Complications

Hello ladies and gentleman, this is a blog. See how I just pointed out the obvious? The crazy part about this and reason why I'm writing this is, some people can't see the obvious.

But let me cook..

Now, I'm sure we have all heard this saying from a fake deep person and that's "sex complicates things". Every time I hear the saying I just want to power drive the person saying it onto a steel chair. To me it's equivalent to saying twitter ruins relationships, which is another idiotic statement. I could be wrong but that sounds like a form of Anthropomorphism. Giving inanimate objects the qualities of a living being. Of course sex is not an object but work with me here. I couldn't find the word I was looking for, but that will suffice. Anyway, how can something like sex complicate things? And what does it complicate exactly? Complicates how you interact with the other person involved maybe? You can't blame that on sex at all, the two involved are the only ones that can complicate anything. Sex should make the relationship better if approached correctly. If you're not in touch with the other persons mental then yes, it may be complications afterwards. Sex didn't complicate it tho, y'all complicated it. Always know what you're getting into before you get into it, that avoids complications. Well you can't avoid the inevitable, but if you know what you're up against you can handle it. But thats only for certain situations.

If its just sex then nothing can be complicated...

Sex can't complicate nothing, nothing can complicate nothing. Feel me? Let me explain, walk with me. If its nothing there, it's no way sex can complicate it. For example, say someone tells you they want to have sex with you. And your response is no and you explain that you said no because sex complicates things. It's nothing sex can complicate in this situation, but on the other hand it's plenty you can complicate. You actually already complicated things by making that statement. Maybe you just don't want to have sex with that person, why not just say that? Maybe you think all that person wants is sex, why not ask and find out? I'm sure you're saying because people lie, which is true. Yes people lie, but you should never assume. It's the not the sex, it's you assuming and lack of communication that complicate things.

Communication is Everything when dealing with someone. The lack of communication is almost certain to lead to a misunderstanding. Communicate, once you feel like y'all understand each other do what you feel. If you get lied to cool, get over it shit happens. It wasn't the sex, you were just dealing with a liar. It's going to happen sometimes, we have all been thru it. You just can't let shit like that alter how you feel about something great as sex.

In conclusion, sex doesn't complicate anything people do. Don't be complicated, find understanding before you make drastic decisions. Don't use that dumb ass phrase, say what you mean and mean what you say. But that's all I have on that. Maybe it didn't make sense, it makes perfect sense to me tho. But hey that's just the Virgo in me, take care.

Joe Budden Pool Party

Hello ladies and gentleman, as you all know my life was changed a few days ago. Through all my hard work and dedication, I actually made it to jersey for Joe Budden pool party. This may be the best thing and the worse thing that has ever happened to me. I'll explain later, let me tell you about this party tho.

How was the party you ask?

Dude, you ever been to heaven? Yea it was like that, I was certain hologram Jesus was gonna show up and perform Jesus walks on the balcony. I seen chicks that looked photoshopped in real life, you ever seen a chick that looks like she wears a size perfect? Well I have, several times in one day. I was surrounded by a bunch of beautiful women that looked as If they just jumped out of a king magazine to be at this party. I know how to act around beautiful women, but this was hard. I wasn't prepared to see so many at one location, it was overwhelming. But it became easier than I expected.

From the moment I got there the air was just filled with positive energy. Joe Budden was one of the coolest guys I have ever met. I kept forgetting he was even a celebrity, just a cool down to earth dude and a great host. Everyone left their egos at the door, it was dimes there with fat bitch personalities. This baffled me. I never been around so many down to earth beautiful women. Everyone got along as well, it was so much love at this event. Nothing but positive energy, beautiful women, and a whole lot of liquor. It was something I have never seen in my life, it wasn't what I expected at all. I can't wait to Tell my unborn kids about this party, I'm going to over exaggerate the fuck out of it tho. My kids will think I was the man back in my day.

But, it was some problems at the party..

Nothing major, but something's that can ruin your life. Like you trying to spit game to a chick and a nba star comes an snatches her up. Yes, that was happening. Shawn Marion was pissing me slam off, I'm never watching a mavericks game again. You don't know how it feels to be talking to a beautiful woman and a nba player comes an just shuts down all your hopes and dreams. You had to bring out top of the line thirst to succeed at this party. I seen a chick talking to a dude and another dude make her stop and come with him. He did this without saying a word, he looked at her and gave a simple head nod and she swiftly left the other dudes thirst in the dust. I was amazed by this, I just sat in the corner and tweeted. At that moment I seen it was no possible way I was going to prosper. My life was ruined, I then knew my game wasn't about shit. My talk game is up there, but these were trained professionals. I couldn't compete, not to mention me falling down metal spiral steps earlier didn't help me none. Yes I'll admit it, I tumbled down some steps. Playas fuck up to. My life flashed before my eyes once I seen I lost my footing. I fall down steps all the time, but this was different. Joe was making an announcement so everyone was quiet and looking over toward the steps where I was at. Then, disaster struck. You have to understand these weren't regular steps, they were metal spiral steps. I was falling down the steps and turned a corner as I was falling. It was complete silence then all you hear is metal and flesh colliding with each other. Like a real nigga I played it off like it wasn't me, but I was the only one there on the steps :(. But hey shit happens.

But all in all, the greatest pool party I have ever been to! Thanks to all my followers that donated and made this happen for me. This party made my summer and I really appreciate y'all for making it happen. Thanks to joe budden for even inviting a regular dude like me. Hopefully I will get invited to more in the future, because I will never be able to enjoy regular parties ever again. But that's all I have, y'all be easy.

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Commitment issues

Hello ladies and gentleman, let's talk about the number 1 relationship killer. Commitment issues. This is something I have a hard time understanding, but I get it for the most part.

Let's just get to it..

Majority of relationships fail because of commitment issues, and it's sad. If you have these issues cool, but you shouldn't get involved with anyone knowing this. I don't agree with commitment issues but it happens and it's nothing you can do about it. Commitment comes with maturity, an sadly maturity doesn't come with age. Maturity comes with experience, so it's understood that an inexperienced individual would have commitment issues. Which is why I feel NOBODY over the age of 21 should have commitment issues. Holding on to a grudge is very childish. Commitment issues are basically grudges you've held on with your past that you take out on your present and future.

Shit happens, accept it and get over it..

You're going to meet some fucked up people in life, that's just life. You have to accept it and keep it pushing. If you have it in your head that everyone is out to do you wrong, you're going to be right. It may not be the case, but you already convinced yourself different. Now you're not able to commit because you feel like everyone is out to hurt you like the ones in the past. Grow up. We're grown men and women, the thought that everything will go as planned should've been out your head a long time ago. Not everyone is out to hurt you, but you will continue to get hurt or hurt others when you have commitment issues. Once you develop commitment issues, it's damn near impossible to give someone your all. That's never a good thing. You're either going to end up finding something wrong or the person will feel unappreciated and leave. And that just starts this never ending cycle, it's like a domino affect. You break someone's heart now they have commitment issues and does the same to someone else. Eventually karma Catches back up with you when you finally get over your commitment issues. You drop your guard and you're able to commit and end up getting done dirty once again, that's how karma works.

But hey it happens.

Just don't waste anyone's time and make them feel like they don't do enough. Don't even attempt to get in a relationship until those commitment issues are worked out. There is no way you can work out commitment issues while in a relationship, trust me on this. Just stay single and work on yourself, it shouldn't be like this but some people aren't as strong minded as others. You should be able to get over your ex and go back at it when you find someone, with no past issues lying within you. If you can't then don't blame anyone else but yourself. Only weak minded individuals let their past effect their future. Don't be that person.

But that's all I have on that, y'all take care