Sex Complications

Hello ladies and gentleman, this is a blog. See how I just pointed out the obvious? The crazy part about this and reason why I'm writing this is, some people can't see the obvious.

But let me cook..

Now, I'm sure we have all heard this saying from a fake deep person and that's "sex complicates things". Every time I hear the saying I just want to power drive the person saying it onto a steel chair. To me it's equivalent to saying twitter ruins relationships, which is another idiotic statement. I could be wrong but that sounds like a form of Anthropomorphism. Giving inanimate objects the qualities of a living being. Of course sex is not an object but work with me here. I couldn't find the word I was looking for, but that will suffice. Anyway, how can something like sex complicate things? And what does it complicate exactly? Complicates how you interact with the other person involved maybe? You can't blame that on sex at all, the two involved are the only ones that can complicate anything. Sex should make the relationship better if approached correctly. If you're not in touch with the other persons mental then yes, it may be complications afterwards. Sex didn't complicate it tho, y'all complicated it. Always know what you're getting into before you get into it, that avoids complications. Well you can't avoid the inevitable, but if you know what you're up against you can handle it. But thats only for certain situations.

If its just sex then nothing can be complicated...

Sex can't complicate nothing, nothing can complicate nothing. Feel me? Let me explain, walk with me. If its nothing there, it's no way sex can complicate it. For example, say someone tells you they want to have sex with you. And your response is no and you explain that you said no because sex complicates things. It's nothing sex can complicate in this situation, but on the other hand it's plenty you can complicate. You actually already complicated things by making that statement. Maybe you just don't want to have sex with that person, why not just say that? Maybe you think all that person wants is sex, why not ask and find out? I'm sure you're saying because people lie, which is true. Yes people lie, but you should never assume. It's the not the sex, it's you assuming and lack of communication that complicate things.

Communication is Everything when dealing with someone. The lack of communication is almost certain to lead to a misunderstanding. Communicate, once you feel like y'all understand each other do what you feel. If you get lied to cool, get over it shit happens. It wasn't the sex, you were just dealing with a liar. It's going to happen sometimes, we have all been thru it. You just can't let shit like that alter how you feel about something great as sex.

In conclusion, sex doesn't complicate anything people do. Don't be complicated, find understanding before you make drastic decisions. Don't use that dumb ass phrase, say what you mean and mean what you say. But that's all I have on that. Maybe it didn't make sense, it makes perfect sense to me tho. But hey that's just the Virgo in me, take care.