Nowadays, men and women aren't looking for a relationship for varies reasons. At this point in their life they are just looking for someone they can be intimate with. Or a "cutty buddy" if you will. But are their lines that shouldn't be crossed in this type of relationship? The main point of this type of relationship is to just get a nut, right? That's all fine and dandy, but if you only want a nut you probably should just masturbate. These types of relationships work, but most of the time they fail horribly. Why? Well, because people aren't meant to be used strictly for sex. We're talking about human beings here, not play toys. Emotions will get evolved, maybe not from both parties but their will be emotions and feelings. Is that a bad thing? Not at all. It's natural for us to develop feelings for someone we're intimate with. That's just life, embrace it.
Now where the problem lies, the denial from the parties involved. In every "cutty buddy" situation, their will be a plethora of nuts and denial. Which adds confusion followed by a dash of of disappointment. Perfect recipe for disaster. The agreement is just sex, nothing else just sex. So when one person involved develops feelings, he/she has to hide them to avoid breaching the contract. But hiding feelings never really works well for anyone. You think you're hiding them but you are not, the way you communicate with your "partner" will change without you even being aware. You will start getting mad at Lil things, Lil things that shouldn't matter if y'all are "just fucking". You smell that? Oh that's just the disaster simmering almost ready to be served.
Now you have feelings and your "cutty buddy" is being a Lil too friendly with someone else. Or are they? In your head yes, In actuality, they're not. Your feelings are making you view things differently at this point. The bad thing is, UOENO it. Disaster is ready to be served. Instead of you communicating your feelings you do everything in your power to fight them off. Them, not only are you fighting your feelings off you're also fighting off the person you're "just fucking". This is when you find reasons to cut that person off, whatever the reason may be. It's a great reason, in your head. Meanwhile, the other person may have feelings too, but of course they weren't communicated. That's the disaster, the lack of communication. Now y'all are not "just fucking" anymore because y'all both had feelings and couldn't be grown enough to communicate them.
Be smart people. If you can't handle this type of relationship don't even get involved in one. And if you do, which you probably will. Communicate and avoid disaster. Great relationships can come out of "just fucking" but it's up to y'all. Once feelings get involved, it's inevitable that y'all situation will end or be taken to another level. It's no in between at this point. Express how you feel, maybe they don't feel the same. But at least then y'all can end on a good note. That's all folks, I've said enough. My hands tired. Be easy, and remember... Sometimes you gotta just let go and let god.
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