Commitment issues

Hello ladies and gentleman, let's talk about the number 1 relationship killer. Commitment issues. This is something I have a hard time understanding, but I get it for the most part.

Let's just get to it..

Majority of relationships fail because of commitment issues, and it's sad. If you have these issues cool, but you shouldn't get involved with anyone knowing this. I don't agree with commitment issues but it happens and it's nothing you can do about it. Commitment comes with maturity, an sadly maturity doesn't come with age. Maturity comes with experience, so it's understood that an inexperienced individual would have commitment issues. Which is why I feel NOBODY over the age of 21 should have commitment issues. Holding on to a grudge is very childish. Commitment issues are basically grudges you've held on with your past that you take out on your present and future.

Shit happens, accept it and get over it..

You're going to meet some fucked up people in life, that's just life. You have to accept it and keep it pushing. If you have it in your head that everyone is out to do you wrong, you're going to be right. It may not be the case, but you already convinced yourself different. Now you're not able to commit because you feel like everyone is out to hurt you like the ones in the past. Grow up. We're grown men and women, the thought that everything will go as planned should've been out your head a long time ago. Not everyone is out to hurt you, but you will continue to get hurt or hurt others when you have commitment issues. Once you develop commitment issues, it's damn near impossible to give someone your all. That's never a good thing. You're either going to end up finding something wrong or the person will feel unappreciated and leave. And that just starts this never ending cycle, it's like a domino affect. You break someone's heart now they have commitment issues and does the same to someone else. Eventually karma Catches back up with you when you finally get over your commitment issues. You drop your guard and you're able to commit and end up getting done dirty once again, that's how karma works.

But hey it happens.

Just don't waste anyone's time and make them feel like they don't do enough. Don't even attempt to get in a relationship until those commitment issues are worked out. There is no way you can work out commitment issues while in a relationship, trust me on this. Just stay single and work on yourself, it shouldn't be like this but some people aren't as strong minded as others. You should be able to get over your ex and go back at it when you find someone, with no past issues lying within you. If you can't then don't blame anyone else but yourself. Only weak minded individuals let their past effect their future. Don't be that person.

But that's all I have on that, y'all take care