Us good men, we like to cater to our women and sometimes spoil them. We do whatever we have to do to make them happy, unless we have a problem with it. Women love that, but then they will have it in their head that you're a push over. No woman wants a man they can get over on all the time. That's when they start to lose respect for you and assume you're a punk. And that's not always the case at all. If you want something and I have no problem giving it to you, why wouldn't I? Some how doing too much positive for a female leads to them thinking negative.
You can't be too nice..
Most men were taught to be nice to women, but the ones that aren't have the most success with women. Women love assholes. I don't know why, they can't even tell you why themselves. Once you're too nice to a female, they start to become suspicious. That's when they start to feel like its too good to be true, which always leads to disaster. The relationship will slowly but surely come to an end because of this. Once they have that thought in their head that you're too nice, they will find something wrong. It may be nothing wrong at all, but they will find something.
But you can't communicate with them too much either...
You would think as a good man, communicating a lot with a female will help you prosper. Not at all my dude, not at all. Once you start being able to talk to her about anything an everything, you will find yourself closer to the friend zone. Women only want to be able to talk to their friends about any and everything, not their man. Is that logical? Hell no it's not logical, but that's just women for you.
That's the struggles us good guys have to go thru on a daily basis.
Don't get me wrong, it is a small amount of women that appreciate good men. Most of them are in their 30's, it's slim to none in their 20's. Once women reach their 30's they have already been there with the assholes, so they appreciate a good man. Younger women are still to young and immature to realize what's good for them. They know you would treat them right, but they will much rather have the thug with felonies and baby momma's. That's life, just accept it.
Maybe one day you will find a chick that appreciates you for being a good man. Until then, adapt to the women you deal with. Don't give them everything they want, don't be too nice, and don't you dare try to talk to them about everything. Don't do too much, do just enough to keep her around. Once you give your all, you can't get it back. Save your all for someone that deserves and appreciates it. You don't want to be that guy that gives your all and gets heart broken. You'll just feel stupid and be mad bitter. You'll be On twitter Tweeting shit like "fuck bitches get money" and other cliche ignorant statements.
I'm not saying don't be a good man, just saying don't be a good man to everyone. Establish who deserves to see that part of you and who doesn't. Do that and you should have no problems. Stay single, it's plenty of women you can have a relationship with and not give a title to. Save the title for that one you're going to give your all to.
But hey who am I, y'all gon do what y'all want regardless. Just hope some will understand where I am coming from. But that's all. Y'all be easy.
Good stuff!
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