Confidence

Hello ladies and gentlemen, I want to talk about something very important. And that's confidence.

People with no confidence act like confidence isn't everything!

Confidence is something you need for everyday life. Anything you can possible think of doing requires confidence. When you go on a job interview, you can have absolutely no experience what so ever and could get the job strictly because of your confidence. People flock to people who are sure of themselves. You have to be confident in yourself if you want people to be confident in you. When someone ask you to do something never say you're going to try. Trying leaves room for failure, it also screams You're not confident in yourself. Of course you may still fail, but that's life. You can't succeed at everything, but you should still be confident enough to believe you can succeed at everything.

But don't be too confident, yes that's possible

It's not that bad to be too confident, but it will come off as arrogance. I was a firm believer on you shouldn't care what people think of you, but I'm getting over that. If you don't want to be hated and lonely, you should slightly care of what people think. And being overly confident will make people feel like you think they're inferior. Nobody wants to feel like that, and it will push them away. When you're overly confident, you also start to believe you're never wrong. When you think you're never wrong, nobody can tell you anything. That will make people not want to deal with you. Nobody likes an irrational know it all, Trust me i know.

Be confident, but balance it. Not too much confidence, but not too little. Just enough for people to take notice. That's all for now, take care.