Now on to this shit....
Heartbreak is something I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy. Heartbreak can break the strongest individual down. It's like you can actually feel your heart breaking into a thousand pieces in your chest. But it's life, you will have to deal with it one way or another.
Not everything is worth breaking up over...
Nobody in this world is perfect, so don't expect perfection from anyone. Everyone has flaws, the perfect person for you is someone with flaws that you can deal with. Physical flaws may be the hardest to deal with, but mental flaws are the easiest to work thru. With physical flaws it's not much to worry about. They're right there, and If it bothers them you won't even get the opportunity to fall in love. Things like trust issues an insecurities are things you may not become aware of until later. But if you're in love, you wouldn't let those small things end your relationship. Talk it out with your partner before you do something drastic. If someone does everything right but doesn't trust you, that's something you can work on. Trust issues and insecurities can be fixed, not saying it will be easy to most. All couples have disagreements, it's nothing wrong with a healthy argument. You just have to make sure the problem is taken care of after that argument. Holding things in is the worse thing you can do in this situation. You will hold it in to the point where you resent that person, now something so small has become major in your head. One of the other things you shouldn't do is talk about the problem with your friends before you talk to your significant other. That will always lead to disaster. Your friends opinion will always be bias no matter what. I'm not saying you should try to work everything out because some thing's just cannot be fixed. On the other hand, you cant assume that everything can't be fixed. Once you talked about it several times and nothing has come of it, then that is the proper time to end it. If you don't care enough to talk it out then you should end it there. Well honestly, if you didn't care you shouldn't of been in the relationship in the first place. Some may care but still want to end it before trying to work it out. That's b/c they have been in that situation before and they see where it is going. Which lets you know that the person has other issues that are embedded in them from past relationships. You should never let your past affect your future, EVER.
But it happens, don't beat yourself up over it.
Analyze the breakup and try to figure out what went wrong so you can fix it. It's easier to move on when you realize it wasn't you that messed up. You don't want to go around blaming yourself, it will depress you. But if it was you be mature enough to admit you were wrong. You love that person, don't let your pride mess up reconciliation. It may not be over for good, it may be something y'all really needed. Just keep your head up and do everything you can to make it right. If that's doesn't work you can at least say you tried. That will make the moving on process easier.
One more thing. If you feel like everyone else did wrong but all of your past ex's are happily married and engaged... Guess what, it's YOU!
But hey what do I know, my gf had no stomach and now has no good boyfriend. Take care
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