Flirting in a Relationship

Hello ladies and gentlemen, this is for those in a relationship. Now before I start, I want to point out that double standards will always be around. Some will say there is no such thing, just standards for women and standards for men. I slightly agree with that. It's actions women can get away with that A man could never pull off. And vice versa. Flirting is one of them.

Men are natural flirts, that's just us...

It's almost impossible to find a man that doesn't flirt, it's just something women need to accept. Flirting doesn't mean we would take it to another level with the person we are flirting with. Sometimes we just want to see if we still have it, I couldn't tell you why that's just how it is. We get satisfaction just knowing we could have sex with someone else, some act on it. But some can control the urge an just be satisfied with knowing we can. It's in our nature to be attracted and want to have sex with multiple women, flirting helps compress that characteristic in us. Sometimes we hide it from our significant other simply to avoid the drama that may come with. And that's when we appear to look sneaky. That's why it's important for you ladies to set boundaries with your man. Let him know you don't mind the flirting, but make him aware what you won't allow. Communication is key to a healthy relationship. Sometimes you have to just let a man be a man, but it's important you express how you feel about it. Communicate and find middle ground, He will respect you for it. If he takes advantage of your trust and cheats, that's just something you just have to deal with. You can't stop the inevitable, just do your part. You know you did everything you were suppose to, which should help you get thru the pain of getting cheated on.

But let it be known, women are more likely to cheat...

Women flirt too, yes we are aware of this, But it's more of a big deal when women flirt. Men can't have sex with every woman they flirt with, women can for the most part. An attractive woman can have sex with almost every man they flirt with, that's the problem. Which is why men are not comfortable with their girl flirting. Men can flirt with a woman but If the woman doesn't want sex it will never happen. As a man we know how other men think, so we know that guy you're flirting with will try his hand if given the opportunity. And the fact that you're flirting let's us know that you're attracted to him in some type of way. I'm not saying women can't flirt, just saying be prepared for your man to say something about it. As a men we have pride, as a woman you should understand this. And also do whatever you can to not make us feel less as men.

There you have it..

Men can flirt women cannot, embrace the double standard. Hopefully you guys now understand why it is how it is... If not I'll do a part two and go more in depth. Either way, my girl knows I don't like her flirting. She has no stomach, can't have her giving guys false hope. Be easy.