Now let's get down to the get down...
Check your significant others mobile device almost every chance you get. I mean thoroughly checked, every crease, every inch and every nook and cranny of that phone. I know you're thinking "wouldn't that make me insecure?" well, yes it will. But so what everyone has insecurities, it's all on how you embrace them. Sometimes being secure is just being overly confident and can lead to disaster. For example, let's say you're looking to purchase a house. Before you purchase this house are you going to be secure enough to not get the property looked at before you invest? Of course not, so why would you do so with your significant other? If I am with you, you're my investment an I have to protect my investment by all means. Yes investment, i invested time money and effort bitch you is mine. So I'm going to check your phone and make sure everything is the way it's suppose to be. And if you have nothing to hide it should mean absolutely nothing to you.
But, there are a few things you need to know beforehand...
Now be aware, when you go thru the phone you may see some things you don't like and things you may not want to know. How you react will be detrimental to your relationship. If its nothing major, do not bring it up. I cannot be more serious when I say DO NOT BRING IT UP! This Is where most fuck up at and get looked at differently. You don't want to ask her who is J and find out its her girl cousin. That's when you get hit with the deadly question "why were you going thru my phone anyway?". It's no comeback to that, just apologize and keep it moving. After several times checking and you find nothing, I'll advise you to stop. Don't make it a habit. If you constantly do it, you just have trust issues that you need to get rid of.
I know I know, you're probably thinkin "if you're checking the phone don't you have trust issues?". No, let me explain why....
You don't just establish trust all willy nilly, trust has to be earned. Your not gonna get in your car an trust you can make it somewhere without checking your gas are you? No you're not, but once you figure out how your car runs you will. We all drove with the gas light on an know in our head we have 10 miles till that bitch breaks down. It's pretty much the same thing, once you check the phone a few times an see how your significant other operates trust is gained.. Or sometimes not.
An there you have it.
Embrace your insecurities until you're able to eradicate them. This isn't something you should boast and brag about tho. It may be frowned upon by others which will bring judgement that may make you insecure about your insecurity. Then you will be all fucked up.
But fuck their opinions, have control of your relationship. If you wanna know then find out, if there is something hidden their damn sure not going to tell you.
But hey don't listen to me, you can be the secure idiot getting told they're getting cheated on an respond "I know my baby she/he wouldn't do that". Then find out the maintenance man be having ya girl poppin that pussy in the storage room while you at work trying to make a decent living. Avoid that, check that phone.
Either way makes me no difference, my relationship is great an my girl has no stomach. But y'all take care
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